Loss During the Holidays The holidays are often described as a season of joy, togetherness, and tradition. But for those who are grieving, this time of year can feel especially heavy. The absence of a loved one is often felt more deeply when familiar routines, gatherings, and celebrations bring their memory sharply into focus. For many families, the holidays highlight what has changed. Empty chairs, altered traditions, and moments of quiet reflection can make loss feel fresh all over again, even years later. There is no “right” way to grieve during the holidays, and there is no obligation to meet expectations of cheer or celebration. It is okay to simplify plans. It is okay to say no. It is okay to honour a loved one in a quiet, personal way, or to step back from traditions that feel too painful this year. Grief does not follow a calendar, and healing is not linear. For funeral professionals, the holidays are also a time when we may encounter heightened emotions from the families...